My name is Emeka and am a 28year old graduate, I met this girl, her name is ogechi, she is 23, I met her in the bus after my nysc 3weeks orientation program, we become friend and one thing lead to another, I fall in love to her, but through or conversation on phone before we finally meet in person, she told me that she don't need anything from the relationship, that she only need sex, that I should prepare myself very well in term of strength, so that she can enjoy the sex, that she know I don't have strength to make her to enjoy it. After the argument and other arrangement, she finally come to my friend house where am staying, we have sex, but doing the sex she remove the condom and I ask her why she did so, she told me that she is free on her period and I said ok, that u should take care of yourself, that am not ready to have a baby. After spending her time in my from friends house were am staying then, she got a call from one boy maybe her boy friend or her friend request her to come over, the next day, I beg her to stay and not to go that day, but she insist that she must see him, I said no problem I can't stop u, from there, I see her off, on getting to place were she will board a bus,I don't know what happened her phone, she call me and told me that her phone got missing, she start cry profusely, I promise her that I will give her half of the money, but when she told me that her parents are all late, that her uncle is only taking care of of them, I fit pity for her, I said ok I will buy u new phone like yours since am doing my NYSC, she stop cry and believe in me.., from that day, if i calls, she will ask me that I don't want to buy the phone for her, that she will stop picking my calls because she has two phone then, I told her to give me sometime, that am not finance balance, that I will redeem my promise. One day I call her, i ask she should promise me that she will be there for me, because am doing my service at kano and she is in east part, that place is Anambra state.., her answer she give me got me to wonder, she told me that she can't promise me that, that if God say yes, that she can't say no, from there, I told her, so u can't hold yourself for me, she said I should stop disturbing her, that she can't promise me what she can't do. To cut the story short, after my service, I got her call from the ist time, she is a kind of girl that believe if I did not send her money to recharge, she will not call nor text, my surprise is that we stop talking to our self going to 2year because she did not agree that she will be there for me, I said to myself, since u can't, that means u will cheating and all that. I stop calling her. But when I got her call after my service for 2yrs now, am surprise, she ask me whether I don't wanna come east again, I told her I will come, that when am through in what am doing, I will invite her over. I later back in east and we see, but few days we say together, I see thing, she begin to tell me that if I did not take her out, drink, smoke or be fat in body, she will quit this relationship, another one that makes me so sad is, there is a day I wanted to kiss her, she reject but when I force my mouth on her, she spit many times, she clean her mouth with her cloth, and I felt disgrace that day, not only that, she told my friend that am using my visa to deceiving her, is because my visa delay, she told me time without number to go, that I have over stay here in east, the reason is because I did not get the money in time to travel, she never reply if I tell her I love her, she complain too much, never accept fault, talk arrogantly, and she never care for one day, she make a lot of calls in my presence, I heard her telling one guy on phone that if you want her to come lagos, is your money. even sometime, she will ask me to pay before sex with jokes, and told me that everything is money to her, that money is everything to her, and wer