she was my first love & we dated for a year without sex hopin to do it someday.But suprise to me,i luckily saw the msg she wrote to another guy profounding her love to him.After that encounter i call it quit wit her but we still claim to be friends..Since then i find it difficult to love again & i' ve being myself 4 more than 4yrs.Now she wants me back even b4 i left nigeria to south africa that i am now & i thank God for the job offer worth 170k naija currency whereas my last salary in naij... Read (10)

I am sooo angry right now. I just spoke to this guy whom I truly like and I was planning on going to see him, all for him to ask me that when I come would I kiss him? I' m upset because I am truly disaapointed in him. Why would he ask such a question. I thought he was different but he clearly isn' t. I changed my mind on going to see him cos now I think the like he has for me isn' t genuine, or pals what do u fink? Am i the one over exagerrating the whole situation cos i just dnt get... Read (14)

What does age really have to do with love? I am in a relationship in which I find myself with an older male and he is Nigerian. The truth is that he is not the first older male I have ever dated. He is 48 and I am 25. I have dated men his age, older and maybe ten years younger. I do not care too much for males my age because I have never had good luck with them. When I was younger, the males I grew up with in the African community in my state in America never really talked to me and likewise the... Read (7)

What is love pls? I have feelings for 2 guys and i don't know the one i love most. Pls help coz its giving me sleepless night!... Read (9)

I'm a youth corper, serving in Oyo state. My room-mate's girlfriend visited us and he told me she will be spending only 2weeks. Its now 7wks and she is still here and she tends to spend more time with than her bf. I thought it was normal until when we started kissing each other. She even told me that the only reason she is still with us is me, then I knew I had to do something. But what? My room-mate doesn't know, she is not ready to leave and I already have a gf.... Read (19)

I don't know what i feel for him anymore... Love or pity and he kept begging me not to go. Our 2years relationship is not working out anymore, he's got problem with his temper and anytime he does something silly, he always come back to beg. I don't think i can cope anymore and i told him but he kept on begging... Now i'm finding it hard to leave him but i don't know if it's due to love or pity.... Read (15)

i love a very good friend of mine who has been close to me for like three years now but this dude has a girlfriend what should i do????... Read (12)

I had a girl whom i always tell `n` write to telling her how much her i don`t want fall off the page easy. But when ever i call i always beat round. it just that i feel like i will lose her friendship which i can`t take don`t rily knw wat on her mind. any time i try to com up i can`t bt when i look into her eyes the fire burns me down totally. am dieing lonely slowly every day as the sun rises up `n` down. what can i do at dis mins.... Read (17)

I fell in luv wiv him,i made him undastand dat,he told me he luvs me 2 bt has a gf and cnt leave her 4 me cos she's done nufn wrong.we kept on a gud relationship as close friends.he tells me everytn. Now,he has a problem wiv his gurl friend and he's tried caln her severaly bt she's nt bn pick'n up.he just told me dis and he wants an advice in form of a txt from me.honestly,i wud'nt wnt them 2 av a break up b'cos its neva ma intentn.plz wat sort of advice do i give h... Read (14)

Hi my noble pals wat can i do to get her attention she beautiful and i feel for her bt she dey form for me.....help pls.... Read (13)