Am in a serious dilemma pals.. Good morning all... Am in a ...
Am in a serious dilemma pals.. Good morning all... Am in a relationship with a lady. Have engaged her but currently without a substantial job. What am engaged now isn't my field and not generating much pay. I actually reside in Lagos and the lady Same, a working class.. I have a one room apartment which she complains is not ok with her, i see reasons with her though. At the moment still searching for jobs. She is such a good lady, kept motivating and assuring me of getting a fitting job soon. My problem here is that, last week she told me she is having intention of renting a 2bed house for me. She stays with her brother. were she has intention for the house is quite interior. if it were to be in a central point like this my one room i would sincerely appreciate, were i can connect the happening areas easily. I tried presenting to her that i welcome her good gesture, but if the house would be in a central point, it would be ok for me since am searching for jobs, i need be around happening places. She got annoy and viewed it as am not resiprocating appreciation to her good effort. If i park out this my place. Should incase something happens, getting even a one room in this my place goes for 220- 250k. Am confuse pals, help with advice pls. Am a graduate though.

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