I recently discovered my husband had been ‘talking’ with...
I recently discovered my husband had been ‘talking’ with another woman behind my back for almost two years.

I felt totally shocked that I didn’t know this woman and that he’d never mentioned her to me. I obviously assumed they were having a sexual relationship.

So, I confronted him and he denied it, saying they were friends but he didn’t want to tell me about their friendship because he didn’t think I would understand.

I felt lied to and betrayed – if he had nothing to hide, why not say something?

It hurts to know that he’s been keeping this a secret from me and I don’t see how I can ever trust him again. I did get in touch with the woman in question and she assured me that their relationship wasn’t sexual and that she is happy with her partner.

She even said she doesn’t know why my husband wasn’t open about their friendship.
Instead of being sorry and wanting to make it up with me, he just seems angry that I’ve ruined this friendship for him.

To make things worse, his friends and parents don’t believe he’s done anything wrong, and think I’m the one who’s being unreasonable.

Do you think I am?

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