good day pals.

yesterday i went to church, my fiance came to meet me there. during prayer the pastor they invite asked that people looking for the fruit of the womb should lift up their hands as he can see twins all around, and i raise my hands to tap in advance, my pastor saw me and after service he came to meet me where my fiance was and said i shouldn't have raise my hand, that i should wait till after wedding even when he knows we have done some traditional rites. when he was talking right in front of my fiance he just bump this question " abi o ti se oyun ri ni " meaning have i had abortion before, i was so devastated why he should ask that kind of question in front of my fiance, i just kept mute suddenly while my fiance looked at me, till we got home it was insult all through. pls is this right?? cos i intend to speak to these pastor if i go to church today.