My boyfriend works out of town for a month n spends a week in town with me .now he says he has another job to do during the normal one week we spend together .and he wants to know if he should take up the offer .if he does we may not see for the next 4 months .if I say he should go he would conclude I Dont love him n can do without him .if I say he shouldn't go he would be idle during his stay in town wen he could have been making money that we desperately need .he is a very emotional person n I know he is asking to test my feeling for him .so wat should be most important the money n I Dont see him for months or I see him and we Dont get the money