M the girl who confessed to having a thing for my father in law to be and I really appreciate your comments at least the ones who said reasonable things.
First I need to clarify on some misconceptions some of you(who are high on cheap drugs had)
1.there is nothing wrong with fancying one thing even though you or everyone likes the other.i have always dated much older men and it hasn't been for money or whatever reasons you guys cooked up in your head.its not all older men that have money.afterall some of your dad's are broke as he'll and I would still find them attractive.if you like unstable and childish young guys who make you cry out your eyes..good for you and if I choose stable mature older men to admire, that's good for me.
2.i never said my fiancee dad is married.hes a widower and I'm falling in love with him
3.i haven't had any intimate relations with both of them in fact I am closer to his dad (we have a lot more in common) than to him.
3.in as much as I shouldn't play with father and son, truth is you can't teach the heart who to fall for.
I hope I have been able to explain the scenario better for some shallow minded morons who comment before reading.
Finally, m picking the dad!