there was this girl I was asking out, then she told me point black that she can never date me but sees me only as a friend and nothing more, so we became friends fast forward 2 years later she started coming close to me more than how a normal friend should be, always calling sometimes she will call for more than 30 mins we are still talking, den she sends romance texts of which I don't respond, my girlfriend of which I av come to love and adore quit talking to me after she met her, I don't know what they discussed but the way my girl was behaving after they met shows that she no longer have feelings for me, she no longer call or reply my msg claiming that she's busy, well, I still got over that heart break and this female friend of mine still calling and texting and telling me not to worry about my girlfriend and that there are other girls in the world, and from what am thinking she meant hersef wen she said there are other girls in the world, the thing is she's acting so nice but the truth is that ever since she told me she can never date me back den, I just forgot about ever being lovers with her, now she's kinda asking me out, I can't accept bcos I see her as a sister now, but how do I tell her that of a truth I suspect she had something to do with the sudden breakup with my gf, and I can't date her no matter what, how can I tell her without making her feel bad or even doing sometin drastic,