Pls am into making a decision for my life, which might affec...
Pls am into making a decision for my life, which might affect my future or add gain to it, am learning a new business under my inlaw in another country, which he promise to open another branch for me to manage, maybe another country or so.. But at first, he said he will set up the new branch when I master the business, but what scared me most is this: (He said) I will settle you within weeks, months or years when you master the business, but right now, is 9months + and nothing serious has been done concerning the arrangement. and when my brother confront his wife about there plan for me, she said they have give it a thought, that my settlement will be next year. But he said something before that he will set up a new business in another country for us to do combine that from there, he will settle me.. And my problem is now is whether to wait for his plan which I don' t know when it will mature or to travel to Trindad & Tabago and settle down there.. And another thing is that he will start building his new house in the village, and it will make my settlement longer.., Secondly, I met someone in T&T country through online, she is very dear to me, but her age is wide. Her age is 40 but am going 30. I must said she love me deeply with fear of God in her, but she have a daughter which she will be up to 14years now. She assured me I will feel relax when I come over and stay with her, that I should not fear about anything and every good things she told me to be relax my mind, and because of me, she relocated to a new build. She do send me money if am in need, and promise to send me ipad and the money I will use to process my visa and everything, but my problem is that, I don' t want to disappoint this lady, because any curse she lay on me will work, and yesterday, she wanted to send me money because I complain about my mother health and I reject her offer and she is very annoyed because of that. I know she love me and willing to do anything for me, but I think negative and positive too,it will be an error when you depend on woman in other to survive, you will face many battle, I have discuss her about my fear and she keep insist that she is not like other woman, that I will be the one that will be the head of the family, and again what if our plan did not work out after everything, she will start seeing me as wicked someone or start saying that nigerians are thesame. I don' t want to promise what I can' t fulfil in future and I don' t want to hurt her neither. If I accept her offer of coming there, what will my sister and my inlaw will said, that am a betrayer or something like that, please what should I do, whether to accept her offer or stick with my inlaw business. Thanks

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