guys I need help I'm a south African lady my bf his Nigerian...

guys I need help I'm a south African lady my bf his Nigerian we been together since 2013 we moved together after 8 months I'm older than
him with 2yrs but his been a real man to me I meet his parents they came to SA 2013 December I've meet like everyone that came to SA to visit him even his two pastors. I know relationships has ups n downs but this cheating on me making excuses that no woman will compete with me cause I'm in his heart wen we discuss abt marriage he tells me his not ready cause his still a student n he want to have a house n a car first but this bother me so much cause wen we started dating he wanted to marry me but our culture is different from Nigerian culture here we pay expensive bridal price something like 2million naira after that he stopped talking about getting married he proposed marriage he still owes me my ring this year he promised me that he will get me my engagement ring before my birthday but I didn't get it he still calls me every day but so I'm concerned is this guy love me for real or just playing along I love him so much Im trying to learn his language I can cook Nigerian food I do everything a wife would for a husband #sad

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