help o, I fear I am losing my bf to a girl 6yrs younger than I am. my bf and I met in church n he asked me out. he never asked me for sex so I presumed he was saving me for marriage. we weren't d closest couple because he works Monday -Saturday and sometimes Sunday. bt he calls me every fortnight, I call him too. I started noticing he rarely calls me anymore, he doesn't come to church as often...so I went to visit him and we had a nice evening together bt he was frequently checking his phone. he offered to drop me off at home but I told him I wanted to sleep at his place he acted like he was excited about it but then he left me in the room to sleep alone. waking up in the middle of the night I went to where he was sleeping, I wanted to wake him up but I took his phone instead. she is jxt 20, my bf is 29. she has been sending him pictures, they have been together before and he plans to spend the sallah break with her if he is given a day break. Their picture is on instagram, he sends her pictures too, lots of pictures...pictures of what he plans to wear to work, when he is going to d bathroom, what he is eating...he calls her everyday. I feel like someone just removed the rug from underneath me...I don't know what to do. should I approach him n tell him I went through his phone...I am mightily unhappy.