I'm really heartbroken right now and I need to get this...
I'm really heartbroken right now and I need to get this out of me as I don't know what to do. I have been with my husband for over 7years and married 5. Been praying to God for children. Came back home from work early this afternoon to find him with this girl on our matrimonial bed. She had just taken her top off on top of him. It really hurts mostly because I am a devoted wife and Christian and he knows very well what my home means to me....My bed for that matter.
We have been best friends since we got married and we hardly have any friends left as we are always together.. It's been great and although something always reminds me that a man will be a man. I never thought he could bring a stranger into our home.....my bed

She said they met on FB and this was the first time they saw each other physically. She was very apologetic, she didn't realise he is married. They were just starting when I walked in and she said they've never had the main thing.

For the last 3 yrs I've covered 98% of all our expenses. He doesn't earn much so I pay for everything......the rent ...everything plus any other financial support you can think of. I feel so used. He is divorced and his previous wife left him for the same reason. I should have dug deeper before we got married but love covered my eyes.

The normal me wants to close this chapter completely by walking away and just starting my life afresh. But being a christian the spirit of God in me is saying I should exercise patience. Which I know is the right thing but will be difficult.

What's most upsetting is his lack remorse. I kicked him out of the house when I let the the girl out as I just couldn't stand him. He came back hours after to pick his bag...which I am happy about as I need a break. Gosh my blood is BOILING......the normal me is so tempted to react.

Please someone tell me what you'll do in this situation. I am home and tempted to go back out and just start a new life.

List of top contributors for this month

Points are calculated based on the number of confession threads a member participates in
[x] close
You need to register on Naijapals to post a confession
register or login
ID:
Page # of 5128

Comments on this confession

Drop your comment

Hi! You need to register to leave a comment on this post
Register
title:
body:
Open Gistmania Romance Forum

Recent Confessions

goodmorning all, pls can masturbation cause premature Ejaculation for a man. Asin releasing quick eachtime he is having sex. Can it also cause low sperm count. Also make a man to be impotent....
Read (8)
It's funny realising that I have been banned from making comments on gistmania. I never commented against the rules, why ban me?...
Read (3)
i caught my fiancee cheating on me twice before, i forgave her bcos i love her. Am now finding it very difficult to trust her again. Though she sworn never to do it again. Eachtime am not wit her i always think dat she is wit a man. My fiancee is d type a man can convince easily. I have tried to stop thinking dis way but i cant stop it. Pls, how can i stop thinking dis way....
Read (10)
I need help urgently...my dad is been critically ill for the past 3yrs now.. We have gone to different hospitals but nutin was seen.. We tried herbal means... Still nutin... Men of God tried.. Same tin.. Am really confused, Don't know wat else to do.. All this started since he retired. Any suggestion on wat to do?? Even though am still hoping, am getting weary...
Read (9)
guys my bf love sex too much he can go to 2 hours non stop and it makes me angry.I need a serious help how can he reduce his round please any idea...
Read (14)
Please l need your help!! l don' t get wet during sex. Does it mean I' m sick or I have an infection? My hubby keeps complaining how dry my vagina is. It' s not even as if I don' t get horny or get turned on. Is there any drug or medication l need to take?...
Read (12)
Good morning all, Your candid advice please! I and my fiancé work in the same area, but different company, not quite far from each other, whenever my fiancé is going to work from his house, he usually carry 3 of his friends (2 male & 1 female) from their personal house and we are about doing our marriage in Nov. 2015. Should he continue carrying them after our marriage or once a while or never? Insult you are highly welcome....
Read (12)
I will go straight to the point. My wife' s younger sister is blackmailing me. I am paying her almost 50k every month already yet she wants more. She practically seduced me and i made the mistake of sleeping with her sometime ago. My wife usually takes the kids on school run and then head to her office from there and that morning period is always when she ups her antics. Truth is that She seduced me.. I liked her no doubt but i wouldnt have approached her if she didnt show some willingness. ...
Read (17)
My loving dad died couple of months back, burial has bn fixed for this month end, we r six boy, five working and earning almost d same salary of abt 50k, am d fourth son.Burying a chief in south southern Nigeria involve a lot of money, d problem is three of my brothers av refused to remit wat they were tasked to pay, claiming they don't av money, they r all calin me that I shud lend them money without caring to know if I av enuf, that's how one borrowed a very substantial amount of mon...
Read (13)
Good morning Ladies & Gentlemen! For anyone that knows IN & OUT of a Driving job, how much should a company DRIVER get paid as a traveling allowance?...
Read (3)
More Confessions