Greetings to you and my fellow Naijapals. This might be a little long. Please be patient while reading it. My name is Courage, I live in Edo state.

Ma'm as I am writing you this, I feel so heart broken. There is this particular girl I am dating for about two years now, I met her in my church, she was lovely, so we ended up dating. She restrained me from having sex with her because she told me she was a virgin and she can't afford to lose it for no cost, so I respected her wish because I do love her, so we kept on dating.


So sometime this year January she went to Port Harcourt for a job where she eventually spent almost 8 months. After she came back, to cut the story short, we ended up having sex and to my greatest surprise she was as open as a rabbit hole.

She wasn't a virgin, or even semi virgin.

I figured she was lying to me all these years, so I have to ask her what happened to her virginity. She now cooked up a story on how her boss' friend raped her and even impregnated her, and she didn't tell me all this and she kept it to her self. She said her boss' friend, had sex with her that he was willing to marry her if she agreed

After she told me I had to let her go. I went to meet her friend who is very close to her and this friend told me the real story; that my girlfriend was not a virgin before she met me, that her former boyfriend impregnated her so she had to do an abortion to terminate the pregnancy, which she didn't tell me about or mention to me.

All these years of dating, she made me believe she was a virgin.

Fellow readers I don't know what to do right now because I feel so betrayed and lied to.I don't know whether I have to leave her or continue the relationship, because the trust I have for her is broken and I don't think I can trust her anymore. I am so confused right now.

Please i sincerely need your advice.. I am sorry this write up is a little long....