After going through alot of confession out here, i discovered that the major problems out here is nothing than our upbringing, the Bible says, Train up a child in the way of the lord and when he grow up, he will never depart from it, then i must say that most problems originated from the home, an adage says, show me your friend and i will say who you re, then show me your parents, i will say to an extent how you re brought up. the home have shifted away from inculcating the fear of God, morals, values on their children and these has led to alot of problems. but come to think of it, even when the home lacks merit what about us as an individual, can't we have focus and be of good valves in life? for guys that jumps from one lady to another, i will advice you to sit and think about this, if you re married, do you think you will have a peaceful home? i guess no, because you will will still go after other ladies outside your mariage, the same is applicable to ladies as well. Please and please lets have a sense of reasoning and do what is right in order to save the generation unborn.If you do not have the intention of marrying a lady/guy, then why have sex with such, please remember we re God's image, what ever you do to the image imorally is a sin. If there is need for anyone to seek advice from a God fearing pastor or immam as it may concerned about your life and welfare in general, please do so. wishing everyone out here a successful and happy life .