good evening pals <br /> i'm in a confusing state and i...

good evening pals
i'm in a confusing state and i need your helps please. i'm 27 years old and i live in one of the europe country about one year ago i met my boyfriend he had everything i wanted in a man then after three months of our relationship he showed me his family pictures he gave my number to his sisters and all. he stays with his eldest brother who is married with two beautiful daughters and these little girls love me so much even his brother's wife. so when i saw he introduced me to his famly i decided to open up because in my previous relationship i never ever open up to my exs but when i met him he was so cute, so calm, and he always gave me advice especially when i told him i have to land to call my own in nigeria so i had some money he called his father when i came to nigeria some months ago with the help of his father i bought a land and i'm currently bulding my house now. i use to smoke being a smoker i had a very hot temper and being he is from a christian home nd he is very responsible i had to quit smoking. so before i use to shout at him or even insult him and he keeps telling me i have eveyrthing he wants in a woman except my smoking and my hot temper and i promise to cut it down which of cos i did. to cut the long story short when i went to nigeria i met his family, play with his mom i mean everybody and they all liked me. but ever since i got back from nigeria he has been acting funny, if i ask him a question he will start shouting at me, nothing i say make sense, he doesn't like going out with me bcos i'm fat which i had to diet and i loose up to 10 kg, he doesn't listen to me so when we call each other is just hi hi except when we want to talk about intimate stuffs that we stay longer on phone. so i met another guy who has be keeping me company and i'm like falling for the guy cos he listens to me, he support my writing, even the cause i want to take he likes d idea and now i don't know wat to do because i don't double date. my boyfriend is in nigeria now for d past 2 weeks and he didn't even call my dad that always ask about him when ever i call him.
so pals help me please no insults
and remain my family are at my neck to get married especially my mom she is begging all my firends to advice me to get married because i grew in this country and i schooled here so i almost like have white people mentally and my mom is scared of it. my mom and i live in d same city and she won't let me be bcos i'm scared to start a new relationship bcos dis year i will be 28
please pals for God sake help me.

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