If am to title my life as a movie. I will tag it as ‘‘THE MOST FOOLISH GIRL IN THE WHOLE WORLD''.
I am 26yrs old, I have been struggling with life since my age of 14yrs, I came from a poor background, we are 7 in number (4 boys & 3 girls) and I am the 5th and first daughter, I have hawk different kind of product in my life e.g. Kerosene, Soap, Pure water, groundnut oil etc. before I was able to finish my secondary school.
I struggled to work as a Phone operator to gather money to enable me have computer knowledge, after my computer training, I got a job in a cyber café where I was grounded very well in computer.
God helped me again, I got another job wit Oil & Gas firm as a cleaner for 2yrs, I notice the coy is paying regularly, so I decided to enrol for part time program (5yrs) in 2012 wher am studying Accounting and I will be rounding up this yr by the grace of God. Becos I was not ready to depend on any person and I have accepted my faith into the family God has brought me. None of my 4 elder brothers went to higher institution, I have been the one helping my family financially house rent, feeding etc. I broke the barrier by furthering my education, I am the best female in our class, I don’t look at my circumstances, whenever I closed from the office I go to the library to read from 5.00pm to 9.00pm before I returned home every day from Mon-Friday. Which I will ensure my two younger sister further their education till they graduated.
The mgt of the coy saw that am hard working and decided to promote me to a particular dept. where I became the Finance assistant to one of the Senior Accountant in the coy.
During that period 3 bachelor came disturbing to marry me, I access the 3 of them.
I decided to choose the one that is matured, patience and good looking, I failed to look in-depth of his life. I went into marriage with him last year and later noticed the following
1) Not a graduate.
2) The company he is working never pay monthly.
3) Despite that, he never think out of the box to look for some tin doing.
I have started the genesis of my life again, I feed, transport, cloth myself and also feed him. My younger sister that is currently undergoing basic study in school is on my neck, our last born that is writing her WAEC this year is on my neck, my family is on my neck for house rent, my school fee this year is there and I am just earning N104, 000 (Before deducting my tithe).
People perception is that I married a rich man, they never knew he is not working nor even a graduate.
Up till today I still don’t know what pushed me into the marriage.
So single, please learn a lesson from this.
So that’s who I am. ‘‘THE MOST FOOLISH GIRL IN THE WHOLE WORLD''.