Happy sunday to everyone in the house,i have been going through a sleepless night due to my relationship with a lady i met months back,i live in east Asia and i met her through a social network site,we started talking and things worked out between us,months later i came to Nigeria for a visit and planned knowing her more,she behaved so nice and i really dont think of having any other lady but later i found out she is still talking with her ex bf who left her cos she cheated on him,she has been begging the guy to please forgive her and when i found out she said it was old message but i knew it was a lie and we moved on,she lies a lot and even would never keep her phone beside me whenever we are together but when she is not with me she will give excuses that she left her phone in the room that is why she couldnt pick her calls,to cut the story short,we had little issues and i told her to please change for good that i really love her but she said she is not ready for any relationship that she need space and i said okay but not up to 20mins she started calling me and telling me she love me,i explained things to her younger sister and all she told me was that i should make my decision that there are somethings she cant tell me,i called her yesterday and a guy picked it up that she is busy and he hanged up,i called back and it was the guy who picked it up again and he said she is in the shower that her boyfriend was the one talking on the phone,15mins later my gf called me that she is so sorry that her flat mate was the one who picked her call that he is joking...........plea se i will appreciate good advice cos i love her so much but am feeling so sad right now