Gud afternoon. Pls i was d lady who posted abt d younger brother of my ex guy who helpd me with a job at the company where he works in lag, and i am also living with him cos i dnt hav any frnds or relatives in lag. He is very much caring and he provides for everytin needed in d house including pad & t.fare for me. We live in d same room, sleep on d same bed 4 ova a month which notin happend. Though i liked him but i dnt hav sexual feelings 4 him. A nite he wants to touch me and i was angry & frownd at him,he stops sleeping at home. He sleeps ova in his frnds house & wen i enquired frm him. He said he cudnt resist d urge again and doesnt want to be tempted. I felt bad about it and tot of moving out of d house bt i dnt hav anywhr to go and i dnt want to loose my job which i posted here and u all advised me on it. What happend now was dat he came home 2days ago to tell me dat the house is now mine dat he had goten anoda apartment and he is not taking a single pin out of d room. I was shocked and overwhelmd cos dis selfcon apartment was new. He moved in august dis year and he got it for 130k. Furnishd with Lcd flat screen, deep freezer, luxirious funrnitures and d likes which he left 4 me. I dnt knw wat i do to deserve such care cos his broda who dumped me after 5 months of dating was neva as caring as dis. The problem is dat i dnt knw how to apreci8 him. Though i knw he loves me, he calls me sweet names and makes sure i neva lacked anytin. He even told his frnds and collegues dat i am his gal. But we do respect each other. I called him broda and he calls me aunty. The emotional intimacy isnt close and he hasnt askd me out. And i knw he doesnt hav any gal he is dating 4 over 9 months now. I am beginning to develop a feelings 4 dis guy. How do i go abt it?. Wont i fool mysef if i show it to him dat i love him?. How do i appreci8 him 4 his care and support. Advice me pls.