After our introduction, we decided to get an accomodation. Though d money for d rent like 70percent came from me. I bought most of d tins in dat house and anytime he collects his salary, i dont touch it. We are supose to get married next three months, but he traveled home and came back and told me dat he wants to take evrytin slow dat he doesnt know if am his wife or not...he has bin switchin his phon off or putin on vibration anytime am in d house. I pay most of d bills and i give him money anytime i leave for my place. So cos of wat he said, i got angry and left him. He asked his pastor to beg me dat i shuld give him tyme to be ready for marriage. I gave him d tyme and last week, i saw a female slippers in our house and he told me dat its his sisters own, wen i called her, she denied it and now he is tellin me dat he is not cheatin on me dat i shuld just let d slippers mater go. I am not gainin anytin from ds relationship. Pls wat do i do cos his family are not even talkin of gathering money for d wedin now. Everytin is on hold now.