Hi pals I need some advice on this issue.it concerns my kid sister and a friend of mine who is a brother in the lord. I knew this brother over ten years ago. Infact he directed me to my spiritual parents where I heard the gospel and repented.he was interested in me emotioonally but I did not share same feelings for him. We both traveled abroad separately though to the same country. I am happily married to somebody else whom he knows but keeps refering to me as the one who would have been his.
Whenever he needs help,I allways do all within my reach to help him even spiritually,I mean interceeding for him.
My worry is this,he has travelled back home to respond to God s call in his life,seen my kid sister and wants to marry her.my kid sister told him her response will depend on my decision.she later called me to tell me and ask my opinion about the matter. I asked her if she had feelings for him and she said yes.
Are his feelings for her real,is it genuine or what is his point.? It is true my kid sis looks very much like me and this brother had never set eyes on her,but I hope he really loves her.
My fears,first she is just 23 and abit young to begin a family though she is a graduate and allready workingg,she is still naive.
Second he is older than her by 13 yeaars though he looks very young too at 36, and last but most terrifying fear is that,the guy has a strong call of God upon his life and my kid sister is still immature in spiritual things.
Please I need honest advices for I need to say my position about this and it has to do with my only sisters future and I want Gods perfect will for her even if it means putting asside my personal fears and worries. Thanks again.!