Just as it takes a Terrible Woman to make a Man wise, so does it take a Horrible Man to make a Woman wiser.
Yes, we all have in several occasions and experiences, become wiser in life. But d question is, Wiser to what level?,,
A level of sleeping with all Women /Men because of ur past or a Level of upgrading ur standard in knowing ur worth and not allowing anyone bring u down?.
I tell u this that, sleeping with Every Man for Money in revenge for what ur Ex's caused u Or, Sleeping with Every Woman in revenge of how ur Ex's played u, is not a wise change at all, rather, U just got more Foolish.
Being wise is to not be Negatively manipulated, influenced, or Changed by anyone, rather, is to be better than them on how they treat people.
Of course, Bad experiences Changes people, but is it not in ur choice to be positively or negatively changed?.
Brothers and sisters, in as much as we both need each other, so do we need to not Hurt each other for people's caused who we had a past with.
Life gets better for us all When we chose to make it so, but gets worse When we let it to.
Be wise, Not Foolish!