Hi pals, travel overseas and meet a 9ja girl who was already doing well here. but before i left 9ja i was having a serious relationship in Nigeria. due to difficulties in europe i developed a feeling for the 9ja babe in Europe hoping she will will help me to settle here and there by marry her for Good. but when we started the relationship she told me she told me that she cant help me with integration process and i felt she was only testing me if really i have a good intention but sooner it became a reality and she never helped me. now i found a white girl who now helped me with integration process. and the black babe is aware and now disturbing that we have to marry and start having children. i don't want to hurt her by telling her direct that i cant marry her because of the help she didn't help me. pals instead of me marrying her i better go and marry the innocent angel in nigeria. because the reason i wanted to really marry her was that if she help me i cant leave her for another lady but since reverse is the case i dont want to marry her. please how do i cut of the relationship because we are still dating despite thatb i know my hearth is not with her because she always seduce me into sex.