I am a guy and been having affair with girl for long time now but no sex ,mean while i am not staying in nigeria.but each time i came to nigeria we spend time together and whenever i ask for sex she always said no ,that we have to wait till we get married,and am somebody that doesn´t put force on anybody, but to my greatest surprise she was busy having another boy friend in her school having sex without marriageto the extent 2 times abortion,and i found it late and she beg for forgivness and i told her am ready to forgive you only in one condition if you go to a proper checkup concerning your wumb she accepted but up till now she hasn´t done that.but again i was so surprise when we are talking and playing on the phone and i metioned about sex ,she said again that i have to wait till we get married then i was very angry with her and she was sounding so serious about that .please i need your advice pals