This is for mature advisers only please! I never post anythi...
This is for mature advisers only please! I never post anything on this site, I will today. Iam a young lady in my 20's. I live in America. I met a guy on this site, he's in his mid30's and living in Nigeria. Honestly i don't take anything online as serious, but Because of a his matured approach he did when he inbox me I decided to talk with him then we started talking on whatsapp. Everything was fine, but I started to see a few insecurity in him in just one month time, he started questioning me about why i have so many pals on my naijapals friends list lol etc... But i looked pass that. We chat every single day. I really like his character to some extend. My the condition was I will not agree to be with him until I meet him face to face. He agreed. so we planned to meet some day, but no date was yet set. What I really like about him during 3 months of us talking he never ask me for any type of assistance despite that he has nothing really. So I said to myself this guy is really worth keeping. We talked always talk about how I want to open a business one day and stop living from paycheck to paycheck. I really wanted to do something good for him, like help him to have a business because he was a poor person (im not rich, Im just able to eat a daily meal and make some savings because I have the opportunity that he doesn't) but to cut the story... he was so impatient, about meeting me, he wanted me to start loving him now, said he was loving me too much & all, he was started showing more side of insecurity. And it was CONSTANT! He gave me no breathing space. I told him no matter what he tells me I will no agree to be with him UNTIL we meet. From exchanging word everyday about the same issues... things escalated to worst I told him I don't wanna talk to him anymore because he has no patience an was COMPLAINING TOO MUCH. So after I decided to dropped his contact that was when he realized he lost a good lady (that's what he message my cousin) and he had his relative calling me. I don't know what if I should talk to him again. Part of my mind is telling me don't. BECAUSE IT'S NOT THE FIRST TIME HE'S SORRY FOR THE SAMETHING.

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