This is a first for me, so bear with me. I am currently invo...

This is a first for me, so bear with me. I am currently involved in a long distance relationship. I am looking forward to finally meeting him he is it appears to be everything I want and need. The problems are...I am a mom and grandma and he is never married, no children. I am also 11 years his senior. I'd like him to be happy. I don't want him to resent me later since I'll never bear another child. I'll give him up, to ensure his happiness, but I want to try to see where we go, first. Am I being selfish? Should I just walk away? Or tell him how I feel and try to keep our friendship while he pursues someone his age?

He says he loves me and shows it in many ways.
Please, if you have a negative comment, do not bother. I would prefer an honest opinion, even if I didn't like it. I don't need anyone else bashing me more than I already do myself

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