Guys please I need your candid advice here. Am at a fixed. I was in a relationship with a girl who claimed her father said he will not allow any of his female child to stay in his house above their 25th birthday and then I was only at 300level. There was this day she came crying that the pressure was too much on her and seeing I was not ready, we agreed to end the relationship so that she should go ahead with her life. But she kept saying how all her family members likes me and that she does not want to lose me. two weeks later an idea stroke me, she is got a beautiful sister who has got years her on her side(20yrs then) and could wait for me till am ready and since I love the family too, it was kind of good for me. So I called her up and told her about what I was considering, to my greatest surprised, she welcomed it. And held my heads and 'prayed, blessing my new found love. she even asked me not to talk to her about it that she will do the talking. True to her words, She went to convinced the younger sister on our decision, though it took her some two months to convinced her and for her to agree. To cut the long stuff shot. I started dating the younger sis. It was so wonderful, I have never seen love so sweet like that. The elder sister will come to my place, pick what I should wear to go see her sister, tell me what she likes and where I should take her to and all that. Guys, it was so nice, I have never been so in love like this. And I even love her more than the love I had for the elder then. But It was short lived,four months, four months of peace and joy full of love.
But this did not last as the elder sister changed and started making things difficult for my girl, Making the family thinks that her younger sister snatched me from her.One day, my girl came and said she cannot do this anymore, that everybody in the house thinks she is the bad girl. I called her elder sis to know what was happening she insulted me and said she will not allow me to marry her younger sister. I was surprised. I said what happened? What happened to the prayer you prayed, the tears in your eyes? were they fake? what about the persuading, the begging you begged your little sister? They frustrated her and I had to stay low for the time being. Now am through with my school finished service and working with an NGO in FCT and the elder sister is married with a child. Just recently, my girl (the younger) called me, and I and ask her, she said that I know she had loved me that I should give her two weeks to think and pray about it that she was only concern about what the sister would say but she really wants to think for herself now. I have been waiting, its remaining two days to complete the two weeks she gave me.
Guys what should I expect?
Should I go ahead and marry her?
what if she said no?
I still love her more than anything.
am ready to face anybody or thing.
or Am I selfish here, being insensitive to others.
Am I really wrong on this?
please talk to me guys.
Thanks as I await your responds