My guy wants me 2 lend him 180,000 naira 2 pay 4 a shop.though he wrks bt he wants 2 use d bussiness 2 support his income.feb i gave him 50,000.he said he want 2 use it 2 wrk out a Job offer.till nw d job has nt cm 2 manifestation.i go 2 his house some sundays.he stays in umuahia while i stay in ph.recently i told him dat i cn nt continue dis visitation journey coz i don't want anytin 2 hapn 2 me.dat radar he shud b d 1 2 b visitn me.i stay wit my parents though.i had 2 take dis deceison coz d relationship is nt forging 2 anyway.wen i explain dis 2 my guy,he said am d 1 holdn it na.dat he has told me wat we ll do inoda 2 facilitate our being 2gada.dat d effort shud nt b only frm him.wat he is implying dat i've 2 give him money 2 start d bussiness n also 2 contribute 2 raise d money 4 my bride price.pls i nid ur advice.coz rite nw am tinkn of brking up wit him.