Hello, pals. Please I need candid advice from responsible men and women on this one. I av a fiance and it happened that late last year, she need 40k to finish her project and clearance in school. Her mum was broke then and she happens to be d only one catering for her children becos their father was irresponsible. So, the mother told me if I borrow her 40k dat she wud pay back later. I told her I can't borrow my fiance money dat I do rather give it to her. So, I gave my fiance d 40k but d mum still insisted to pay it back. And anytime she sees me, she would tell me not to be angry with her dat she wil still pay d money. This made me to stop going to their house cos d statement made me feel uneasy.

To cut d story short, I bumped into d mother yesterday and she thanked me for coperating with her until she was able to pay back the money and dat hope her daughter delivered her message of thanks with the money as well. I was dumbfounded and couldn't say anything. I manage to force a smile and left. This means that my fiance had collected the money from her mum and kept it to herself without telling me.

I'm not even particular about getting the money here cos it I can neva collect it back cos I gave it out of love. But why would she do dat and not tell me. Considering also d fact dat av warned her against collecting d money back for me dat I won't collect it.

Now, I'm thinking on confronting her with it. Do you think I should? Cos I don't want to do anything that will end our relationship.