Greetings to you my Naijapals! <br /> There is a girl I have...
Greetings to you my Naijapals!
There is a girl I have been dating for almost a year now, I met with her family yesterday and some series of interrogation were conducted by her parent. For God so good, I answer them with confidence and I excel. After that, her parent added that from now onward I must be paying their daughter some money (either weekly or monthly) for her daily meal and they want to know the certain amount I will be giving her. The question is not really the problem but what baffles me is that I don’t know if it is the right thing to do.
This is a working class girl, although, her income is not up to mine. I know my responsibility as a partner, that is why I used to support her in some areas like giving her enough transport fare whenever she comes to my house, I also gave her money for festivals too to buy herself some festive stuffs and even on her birthday and much more, just to buy herself some things…but how come about ‘daily meal’?
I am really depressed since the moment I heard this. So, I feel I am not alone, that I have a family to advice me on this which is Naijapals.
Please, pals. I need answer to this and I count on you.

Is it the right thing to do when we are not yet married?

Thank you all!

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