Can u say u r in a r/ship wit sum1 u do nt see? My uncle asked me if i'm actually in a r/ship wit d gal i hv in mind 2 marry. I told him; yes but he said he's nt sure dat i shld consider my decision n dis has giv me sleepless 9t. Ders dis gal we've known each other frm skul. We dated 4 atleast a month during dis tym, we didn't hv any intimacy, no steady visit n i didn't know their aous cos she was relunctant 2 let me knw their aous or any of her family member. She stopped visitin me cos she insisted i must leave d place where i was residing then. It's been 6yrs now we haven't seen. I am now in Lagos while she remain in d north. Recently, we come in contact on facebk n sometimes chat online. Pals, ur opinion