please I would love to share something depressing me right now, I and my fiancee have been dating for over a year plus now, just last year December I went to see her people and started the traditional rights for marriage, we are both currently on marriage counselling. Now the issue at hand, 3 weeks ago we had a fight and my fiancee almost called it off, if not for pleas from me, the issue was because I had not heard from her until I called her around 12pm on that day, things got out of hand I said a few things which I later apologised for but she wasn't having it she insisted on breaking up. We made up and carried on, just yesterday we went for a wedding, we had a really nice time and all, on our way out from the reception hall, she was walking along side me all of sudden I realised she wasn't with me anymore, I looked back only to find her talking with another guy, I wasn't happy, I told her at least she would have recognised her presence even if she dint want to introduce me she would told Mr before just leaving me like that....we settled when we got home, a call came In from a female friend who has been making advances at me, she was complaining that I don't give her attention...I showed my girl the message she took the phone from me and decided to start scrolling tru my messages and wanted to read a chat with one of my male friends of which I objected to because he one time told me sensitive things about his family which he pleaded with me yo be confidential, now my girl accuses me that I'm hiding something from her, her altitude has changed, she's acting like she doesn't care about the relationship anymore. This is someone ive stood by and supported her even now she is yet to find a job, she says I go tru her phone and don't want her to go tru mine....secondly please I want to know, is it normal fora girl to chat a guy up and start reminding him of the agape love she had for him, even telling him that they should post him to the US so she can use him to come to america without possibly having anything in mind....this is what I found in her phone the last time I went through it.