I've been single since January, I came out of a serious relationship due to some family issues and since then relationship hasn't been in my favour.. There's this particular guy have known for years (over 5years) he has been on my issue,I pended his request because he's this kind of on and off guy so I never saw him as someone that truly love me but we are friends.... Fast forward to July.. He came up with it again and claiming to be single so I said yes but communication has been so poor.. Poor like we can go one week without communicating, i always break the silence,he chats once in a while... I talked to him about it but he claims he loves me that loves comes from the heart and not by how many times you communicate..he has been like this that's y I peended his request since.. He's always claiming busy,though he can travel to 5diff states in 5days and ended up travelling out of the country for weeks due to his job anyways.. He's always claiming he loves me because I've known him when he had nothing but he refuse to put it in action.. I'm this kind of lady that doesn't like forcing things, I so believe in the adage that says what would be would be... I give up on anything that obstruct my happiness so easily, he follows this platform but I'm not sure if he's going to read this due to his busy schedule as claimed.. We've not had sex we've slept together once.. The problem now is that he's planning on how we going to see,obviously we might have sex this time around but I'm confused if things won't go wrong more than this because someone that hasn't seen my pant and he doesn't see communication as a barrier.. Is it advisable for me to go see him? Yes,I love him so much even more than I'm showing him.. Pls advise a sister