my confess is this, I dated a guy for two years everything w...

my confess is this, I dated a guy for two years everything was sweet and nice in the beginning; however, has time want on the guy start changing towards me like for example when I visit him he will welcome me but the next day he will start acting werid like he wi not talk to me a lot and since he stay in a student housing I can't enter the kitchen to pearpare food regard he will be the one to fix the food for both of us . but when ever he visited me I always cook and take good care off him . so during the beginning of our relationship he promises me marry but you know all man says it and i didn't really take it serious we still do bf and gf things I did not know that his my nigerian boy has sync my phone to his laptop so whoever calls or message me he sees it on his computer this Has been going on for one yr I didn't know . I got a job after guration and I met another guy at work him too his nigerian for whatever reason I gave in because I felt lonely inside me because I could tell my bf when ever I try to say what was on my mine I get scared of him like I can't talk I told him so many things about my family my friends basically everything that happens in my life but I didn't no my bf was keeping record of everything so when I met this new guy at work and he start talking want out for dinner he talked about blow job which is something my bf was the first guy I allowed to do it to me so when I met this oter nigerian gut at work he wanted to do to me so I agree he did but u know boy job makes u screen it like your wormb is exposing my bf saw all my msg with the other guys he started questioing me tell me to confess layer I did I have beg him to forgive me he said he has forgiven me buy can not counting the relationship with me I have involved friends to beg on my behalf I have lose weight I even cut the relationship with the other guy asap . my ex think all negative things about me this is someone I travel far away to go see him he doesn't talk much he read meaning to everything . I need help getting my nigerian bf back he help me with things if I ask what can I do to get him back he did Me wrong by sync my phone to his computer because that praviate and when if I had serious infor I don't want anyone to know about . Pls help me I love him he said I do not have Islam value I am a Christian and he knows from the get go I do not go to church often but I pray at home he doesn't believe me

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