I am a working class lady, I shed tears almost everyday, sometimes I question God for making me to come across the man I got married to on the 05th December 2015.

It's a pity that an illiterate will always be an illiterate.

The lies he lied to me a week before our marriage keep occurring in my mind that whenever it crosses my mind it makes me to go wild on him.

My marriage hasn't be smooth as expected. As whenever I remembered my husband is not a graduate as I am, it pains me down to my bones.

I have tried my best to get a form for him, but he refuses, also encourage him but it seems his vision is very different from mine.

The nature of job he does is off/on that he might work for 3 month and off for 3-5 months without pay. I have encouraged him to look for skills work for now pending till when the off/on work comes up. But my hubby refuses. Rather he prefer watching movies from morning till night or goes to visit his friends from Monday - Saturday.

I have tried my best to want to make him a better person in life. But all my effort prove abortive. His attitude is demoralizing me. I can't longer concentrate on my professional exams anymore, becos no more encouragement.

Another greatest mistake is that we are AS/AS, we got to know this after our marriage which the doctor said we have to be carrying out pre-parental test whenever I take in, which will cost us close to N300K, which means I will have to be aborting if the child is SS.

I am just tried of everything, I have been praying to God to help me out. Crying!!!