My confession is that,am married to a man of 41years while a...

My confession is that,am married to a man of 41years while am 26,we dated for like three years but I didn't see him as my husband,I just saw him as my helper,I agree to date him just because of the problem am facing then wish I believe he can solve them for me,wish he did,along the line he propose to me but I said no just because I don't love to marry him,then when we first met he didn't tell me he has a child,I later know when we are close,so that make me conclude my mind that I can never marry him,so I told him the fact and left him,I now went for another relationship but these guy do call me,ask about me even dough we are not into any relationship,so one day I and my present man had a misunderstanding wish make me to leave my house,and these my ex do invite me some times to pay him a visit but I refuse,so that day I used the opotunity to see him,on getting there we have sex wish I prevent myself,later when I got home I didn't allow my present man to touch me just because we are still fighting,after some days I realize am pregnant,I was sad cause I don't want to settle down with my ex,but the pregnancy belong to him,and I can't go for abortion so I have no option than to agree to accept him,cause he kept on asking me to marry him,I accept just because I think is God will,we did introduction and I move to his house ,my problem here is that trying to create love for him in my heart is not working,though I have a baby boy for him,I can't deceive u the man is trying his best,but the truth is that I don't love him,am now planing to leave him and move on with my life,but I didn't know maybe and taking the right step or not,pls friends advice me on what to do,thanks

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