Hello good afternoon.

There's this girl on my bbm. Been talking for about 7 months now. Never met her before. Our friendship has been the teacher to student type. And she eventually made me her mentor.
Not long she requested I come visit her at her serving state. I postponed it because I was serving too.
I visited her after I got my discharge certificate. Spent 4days with her. She was glad I came and we blended so easily. But I didn't cross the line because I didn't want to lose the respect I gained from her.
The night before I left, she started acting strange and I was like why is it the eve of my departure that she's acting this way. I did a random apology because I didn't know what was wrong with her till she said she doesn't want me to leave so soon. I laughed and told her I had no choice. She got so emotional that night. Told me a lot of stuffs, her deepest secrets. Twas real crazy that night I had to cuddle her to bed. Woke up the next day and found her hands wrapped around me. I had to do same too.
I finally left her house and sent her a text that my bus was moving then she replied saying she wished she knew me before now and it's like she's falling for me already. I just gave a loud laugh in the bus.
We chatted the next day and she was said no guy has ever done what I did to her before that I've changed her perspective to things. (I'm still asking myself what I did that no man has ever done to her. I only made stupid jokes and all)
One thing is she isn't sure if it's love or infatuation. And I myself doesn't know better because it's been long I last dated. But I must say this, the girl is my type of girl. Everything about her. Shes got a bf but things aren't going too well between them.
She has gotten to this point that she wants me to tell her I hate her maybe the whole feelings will leave her. On my part I don't wanna get hurt and I don't wanna hurt someone. I would love to date her but I'm not sure if my heart is ready. It's been long I did this.

Iono if to do or not.