Hello fellow pals. I hv been on naijapals for over 5years now, I hardly post comments here, most times I just come in to read, smile and maybe also learn. I have a girl of about 8yrs now, we dated right from my first yr in the uni, we were course mates, and she is gentle Godly pretty and homely. Right after we graduated from school in feb 2011, I was traveling to India for an IT training and certifications, I engaged her, just to encourage her. I was in india for about 7months, and after my program, I returned back to her. Throughout my stay in india, I had nothing to do with any lady. I retuned from india, did my one year nysc, exactly two months after my nysc, I was off to England, for my Msc program at Coventry University Englnad, before I left for England, she was so worried I was not going to come back to her, to encourage and keep her motivated, I brought my parents to her house and did our introduction, she insisted we do a court marriage too, just to please her and give her all the assurance she needed, I agreed and we had the court marriage. I left for England, stared my program, got a student job to help me with my bills. God was with me in England, as my job was able to take care of my bills and I was also able to make some savings from it. I and she had always had plans of opening a company, so we registered one with the CAC before I left Nigeria. While I was in England, I sent money down for her to start a business we have always planned even before we graduated from school. She started the business and she excelled well in it. After my program in England, I returned back to Nigeria just because of this girl and nothing more, I had to return because, if i had decide to stay further, something would go wrong and I will be disappointing this girl. I had girls around me in England both white and black, they all wanted to get married to me, remembering my decision back home; I had to keep my word and return back to her. I got to Nigeria, after 7 months, I got a small job, after 3 months with the small job I got another with a multinational company that’s paying me well over a million per annum and I am heading one of the branches of the company. Our wedding is about a month away, but at this point I think I am fed up and want to call the wedding off. She has a bad attitude and its driving me nuts. I have endured that part of her for yrs thinking she will adjust with time. She is so head strong on whatever she thinks. Sometimes I give her instructions not to do a particular thing, she will be so hell bent on doing it, and most times we will have to quarrel out of it. The last that’s breaking the camel’s back is about my cleaner at work. There was a time she came to my place of work and told she saw the way my cleaner was dressed and she got irritated, according to her she said her look was seductive, I told her well that’s not the way I see it, she wanted to confront the girl and told her not to try it, as this is formal organisation and she has no say here because she does not work here. Just yesterday, she called me and was shouting on the phone that people are beginning to tell her about the way my cleaner dresses and she was going to confront the girl, I told her not to try it and she insisted she will, and was saying I recruited the girl so I will be sleeping with her, Jesus I was mad and it was as if my head caught fire. Then all the thoughts off all the bad things she has said to me started running back. I also remembered how she caused me when I was in England studying that not until I take steps towards marrying her, I will never get a job, and all other crazy stuffs that I cannot remember, but all I know is that am full to the bream. this is a lady I did her intro and court marriage before I left Nigeria, if I had no plan to marry her, would I have done all that in the first place. Right now my head is so boiling and I don’t think she is a right choice. Guys advice please cos am about to take a majo