Please I need advise. So at the beginning, when we used to talk he would flirt with me and I wasn't really interested at first but after a while when he kept talking to me, saying nice things to me I began to like him. Hes in his 30s and im 20.So maybe it was all just a game to him because after I expressed to him that I liked him, he told me he doest care about me in that way, which really confused me because of the way he interacts with me. He has told me literally everything about himself, he has cried to me before, told me who he has been with and all that. He hugs me really tight and he has a way of making me feel okay.  After he hurt me, with the he doesn't like me in that way, he then said he wanted to be an advisor to me and help me with my spiritual life ( even though my sister has said he might not be the best one for that because of what we have talked about in the past) so I decided it was okay that he could help me. When he calls me sometimes, he'll be like I have bedroom voice or if he was going to date someone it would be me. Sometimes I feel like he's just playing games, to keep me stuck with him even though he doesn't want me but im trying to find ways to move on but it's hard. Everytime he calls, I tell myself I won't pick up even though it's to maybe pray or just talk but somehow when his name pops up I always do. He's a good guy. I try to act cool, so when he calls I tell him I also don't like him that he's like family to me. I blocked him one time but he kept calling me and leaving voicemails and spamming my messages telling me that he's sorry for whatever he did and that he feels That God brought us together to help each other for a reason. I won't lie when I'm having a good day, (Instead of just talking for a little while to keep the conversation short )I want to talk to him for long and when he wants to go, I tell him to keep talking to me. I'm just really confused about all of this