good day pals.
please i would need your sincere opinion and advise. have been in a serious relationship with a guy for over 3years. He loves me no doubt and he has long propose marriage. His family love me too and are always like encouraging me in the relationship. now the problems is that he is not doing anything at all, no source of income, he does not know how to do anything. He lives and sustained on his family. all he has been hoping and dreaming of his is football career, no education too as he forfeits his education cos of his football career . with the help of an uncle he has traveled before but things didn't work out as planned, even when he traveled i still fend for him not to talk of his return back to the country. He kept prophesizing love but nothing is happening as regards our future. am working as a graduate so i help him in my little way. am been pressured to marry by both friend and family. been praying fervently for God to have His way, recently a young man came my way and as gone as far as starting the process for a court wedding without wasting time, saying latest January he wants to finalise everything and promised no sex until after marriage to prove his seriousness. He is so caring to me and family and could go any length to satisfy me even though i told him am with someone. am just surprise about all. He is even begging me to allow his family come for the list so he can be buying the items. My problem now is that how do i break the news to my guy? will be 30 soon, do i keep waiting n hoping it will be better and one day and he would travel out, as his only aim is to travel ? How much longer would i have to wait? have almost spent all my dime on him too. His dream his that until he starts making it b4 anything. i dont know what his family would think of me. please i need advise on what to tell him and how to go about it. I really do not want to regret my actions if i throw away this present man.