Hi Pals,we are nigerians but based in europe i separated with my wife last year after our 8 yrs. of marriage and we have a son 7years old, the cause of this separation was the much interference of her family into our affairs since i married her in every of our family decision she must seek for the opinion of her mummy or her brothers and sisters and what ever they tell her is what she does whether i like it or not, i tried talking to her several times about it but she refused to change, @ a time we begun to have alot of disagreement that nearly resulted to a domestic violence and as i don't believe in domestic violence i choosed to leave her for some days and moved into another apartment hoping that she will show a sign of rimorse but instead she invited her brother to come and stay with her in our family house, they reported me to the police and begun immediately to ask for separation and child support fund which i have always paid i trained her in school and after that she got a job and everything about her changed to the extend that she had no respect for me again as her husband,for the fact that she earns her salary and sends to her family in nigeria non of them has the power to blaim or correct her even when she misbehaves, i so loved this lady that i have not been able to stop having feelings for her, we do see every two days because of my son and both my pastor and our family friends have all tried talking to her but nothing, her brother here keep telling people that her sister is not coming back to me again that her family dont want her back to me, i am comfortable and i have tried to move on but i find it difficult to love again due to so much love i have for her and my son too, my son is so close to me that he cant afford to stay for three days without seeing me, now i am confused because of my son i know that she still has some feelings for me but the problem is her brother here and the preasure from her family back home because of her money, her brother has not been working for nearly four years and doesnt even want to work due to the money my wife earns and how she runs the whole expenses in the house and takes care of him too, i want this woman back to me but dont know what to do, i need ur advices pls. .....