Gudday pals, plz I need ur advice on this problem I am faci...

Gudday pals, plz I need ur advice on this problem I am facing right now.... I labeled myself a married woman when am not married yet Why cos i got pregnant for my boyfriend, then he wasn't in town for 3months and I could not tell him about it and people around me are beginning to ask me question like so you traveled to ur village to go and marry and u did not tell us but anyway is good thing so when are We coming for the white wedding stuffs like that but I don't have any answer to give them so I decided to tell them that my boyfriend has done the traditional right so if am pregnant That's a good thing. I did coz I'm very sure that he will take care of me and the baby coz he dose not joke with anything called his blood and he has the fear of God in him so i had to labeled myself married just to cover-up. Pals my problem right now is this I had a miscarriage and lost the baby so ever since then I have been caring and weeping for loosing my baby and labeled myself a married woman and the worst part of it right now is that my boyfriend is seriously Looking for a wife while iam still with him.
Two weeks ago we had an issue and he voice out so many thing, he told me that he can't marry from my kind of family. He said 1 that my family is crooning (poor) 2 that God has answered his prayer by not to let me have that baby that no woman get pregnant for him and lost the pregnancy (3) I should ask myself a question if am here to set him backward. 4 that what he used to do with other girl that he can't it with me and he don't know why. 5 that what I asked to do that he can't do it, just because I don't like the way he make love to me and feel like discussing it with he instead to do otherwise and I never knew he could use it against me...truly I love him not minding that I don't like shout man but my problem here is that ever since I meet him have never enjoyed making love with him expect that very day I got pregnant he treated me like z real woman and after that day never again. 6 that he wanted to see my family last year Xmas but his sister said no that am older than him, but he is 3years older that's me...reason Why his sister said no I don't know coz the sister just seeing me for the first time and at night for that matter 7 he showed me the girl his family want him to marry.
This guy has been of help to me in so many ways and I don't know want to do with him weather to let him go or keep him to myself by getting pregnant for him again not minding that I don't Enjoy sex with him and he is the one helping me presently.
Pals plz advice me on what to do...Thanks

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