Badmood#
Ahh ahh,..what kind of nonsense is this,na wa
oo
Why is it that when you are in a bad mood, you
transfer your aggression to your man? You
don't let peace reign in that relationship
because you are in a bad mood. You shout at
him, quarrel with him, keep malice with him,
find fault against him, avoid his phonecalls,
some even go cheating on him......all because
you are in a bad mood. Excuse me, even if he is
the one that cause the bad mood, can you
please talk to him about it and let him know
that what he did hurts you. This will pave way
for the settlement and restoration of happiness
and peace between you two rather than keep
malice with him or cheat on him?
I also hear that some ladies do something more
stupid by carrying the matter to their friends
who are not even in a relationship.
You don't carry your relationship problems to
your single friends who are not in a
relationship, that is being foolish. Take your
relationship problems to someone who is
having the kind of relationship you admire and
to your sisters who are hooked/married or
married sisters in your religious fellowship or
your mother.
Also some ladies expects their men to be mind
readers. You expect him to just read your mind
and know that you are angry with him. How
can he know when you don't talk? Is he a
witch?
If he makes you angry or provoke you, open
your mouth and talk. Let effective
communication be your weapon always. Stop
storing the matter in your mind and expect him
to read your mind and guess why you are
angry. Please be wise to use effective
communication in your relationships and not
foolish drastic measures.
Hope the ladies are taking notes.