Gud-day pals.plz avdice is needed.I married my wife after our 3 years of dating but,I must confess dat things have never remain the same after we got married.we both live in Europe but,in our marriage,my wife seems to be the husband while I seems to be the wife in the sense dat she doesn't have a single respect to me.I guess some of the mistakes should go to me bcos,I saw it comig b4 we got married but,I assumed she was putting on most of those charracters bcos we were not then married.she spat on my face atleast on 3 different occations while I was driving and I was forced to pack the car as she was intending to fight me.I have reported her to the elder sisters dat are back but,it didn't change anythingh mother in the lord dat lives in lagos have gotten tired of settling issues for us tru the phone but,it didn't yield any fruit.she doesn't work bcos,our baby is still small and the govt is paying her but,all she does is to sit on phone to gossip with her friends and learn more how to maltreat me day in day out.I got married to her traditionally and we are still planning for the court and white wedding but,I must confess dat am tired of the whole thing.we came home early this year and b4 coming home,my plan was to take her to her ppl and desolve the marriage but,wen we go home,she changed dramatically for good and I changed my mind thinking she has changed for good,only for her to come back here to be come worst.I can't beat her bcos.1 am not the type that beats a woman,2.if u beat woman here,u are risking going to jail.I can't caution her bcos,if I do,it will result to raisin of voice & xchanging of words & dat would attract the neighbours attention and police would be involved,in this case,I may be asked to leave the haus till the issue is resolved.if am hungry,I must prepare the food myself,enter the kitchen with her or else,it means I don't want to eat.I have try my but,no positive result.I have told her dat we are africans and have culture,dat we shouldnt emulate the white ppl and her reply would be dat am on my own.I won't acuse her of cheating on me after we got married bcos I don't have any evidence against her but,there was a time one man always call her in the midnight and she always go out to answer the calls,until I destroyed the phone and sim.I was speaking on phone few days ago with her mother in the lord and the woman was advicing to be beating her and see if it would have any impact but,I laughed bcos,the country where we one would dere otouch a woman.my wife is the type dat would never accept dat she is wrong and say sorry but,will rather tell me dat women doesn't say sorry even if they are wrong.plz pals,wat do u advice me?bcos am suffocating in this thing called marriage.tnx