Hi pals, please am I doing the right thing or the wrong thing?
My fiancé is a banker he just got the job not more that 5months, his brother is staying with him, and I told him that why did he brought his brother from their village to come and stay with him, but he said Is non of by business that sha I dn’t wont him to be close to his family ni.
So I keep my mouth shut, after some months he invite his sister that is married to come and stay with him too, and you know what that his sister is a married woman, she just gave birth last month, her husband is a soldier, they don’t see each other everyday, due to her husband transfer her husband now said she should go and stay with his parent, she spent some month their and left the place and her brother my fiancée now said she should come and stay with him before her husband get a house for her and job in Akure. So I called my Fiancé and told him that I cant allow that, why, why would she be staying with you, so you will now be taking care of 4 peoples in one room, though am not staying with him cus we have not marry, but he said is non of my business that shabi they are his family, that am I pursuing his family.
The worst part of it is that if I asked my guy to give me money for my hair he we said hez out of money, that they don’t even know what they will eat this night. That I should please go and fined any means to do my hair, so told him that you see now why would you have money when you are the one taking care of your brother, sister and her baby, hez even the one buying pampers, so I left his said so he called me the second day that am a bad lady that I don’t want his family to come to his place so he block my number on his phone. If I called him it we be writing voice mail. For the past one week now he did not call me.
So pals please what can I do? Or am I a bad person for advising him?