In 2008 I met a guy, I love him to the extent I don’t care whether other guys existed. This guy claimed to love me, his main problem is he don’t like picking my calls, claiming he is too busy, at times it takes him days to call me back, secondly he doesn’t stick to his words, esp. when he promise me something that will benefit me like money etc, he tells stories afterwards. he have told me severally that he wants to marry me (every year he shifts it to the other coming year) but he have to buy a car, when he have bought a lot of cars, I told him to come and introduce himself to my family, his reply was that he wants to build house first, I said ok, Then he started building his house, I begged him severally to introduce me to his people, he started dodging it. Then last year Sept 2013, another guy from my town met me and instead in marrying me, he became more serious. I told my guy that a man is coming for my hand in marriage, he should come and do introduction, he told me he is not ready for marriage, that he will get marry in 2014, I said ok, I left him to accept the one coming, we did our traditional marriage Dec, 2013 and court marriage Jan, 2014, still planning seriously for white wedding which will be before Dec, 2014. My husband was opposite of my first guy, although he is not as rich as the first guy, I love him dearly and he love me to the extent that he listens and do almost what I said, unlike the first one that is very stubborn. After my court marriage the first guy started disturbing me, that he is missing me; he still can’t forget me, he even told me that he is looking for a girl to marry but the problem is that all the girls he have met cannot be compare to me, that he wants to marry me, I can’t be unfaithful to my husband. So confuse seriously need an advice.