I am a 20 year old young man with a very nice job that pays well am also schooling and in my 3rd year...Growing into a man gradually neccessitates the need for me to start planning my life immediately finishing school that is to marry. Ive got two girl friends....one i met 2008(Jos) n one i met 2013 (Kwara). I grew up with the one in Jos she was a difficult one and a virgin...despite admiring her and trying to show i love her she never felt it. I didnt even have the nerve to tell her am in love because of her difficult attitude when it comes to men. She didnt reciprocated my love n never showed me me until 2011 when i travelled for about 7 months and came back. She made me understand what love is...she was very truthful and submissive and we were happy togeda. In April 2012 I started working in kwara and everything seemed normal with us....In june she sent me a text that shes no longer interested in the relationship and shes tired of it...I replied "OK". She was calling and texting me but not like when we where together. In that state i was girlfriendless for about till 1 Jan 13 when i met another virgin girl. We exchange phone numbers and started calling and texting. This girl was awesome cause she really prove caring, hard working, sacrificial and logical. So i fell in love with her. (In the midst of all this i still got admirers who needed me both for love and sex though it wasnt my intention just couldnt say no when they want some) To be frank i love virgins alot. 5 months on with my new girlfriend my erstwhile girlfriend who was raped after leaving me sent me a text apologizing for leaving me. I accepted because i still got feelings for her but ive not known she was raped until later she told me. Quite surprising though...To be sincere i love virgins but i never approach them for sex i respect them alot though not trying praise them as others that are even better than other virgins but not this two. Having both of them i manage to show them love, care and affection even if i was distant from them...(Now working in Lagos) They loved me, never materialistic either way i just did the right thing to make them love me even more. When i visited kwara from Lagos my kwara girlfriend started complaining that she knows all i have been doing in her back and she hates it because it made her feel i was taking her to be an option. To prove am not i decided to grant her request which is to discard all other girls. Thats what she wanted but there's one i cannot let go i told her...(the one from Jos). I explained how we have been together and how difficult it is to leave her. Without a word from her though not happy but accepted anyway. My Jos girlfriend loves me so much and made me wonder why she is now....and one day she asked me do i have a girlfriend? i wanted to lie but told her the truth i said yes i have. To cut the long story short i told both of them that I have both of them as one my girlfriend the other my love. They exchange contacts through me and became friends now getting stronger. The issue is if am to marry between this two that ive dedicated my time, head, happiness, everytin to, who am I to marry? I wouldnt have shared this problem if theres nobody to think where am not thinking besides a candid opinion or advice will be well appreciated.