Good day pals

i have a bf who claims he loves me, but each time we want to start any talk about marriage he would quickly and stylishly divert the talk. Yesterday i had to let him know am aware of all is tactics each time we are discussing marriage and i was able to convince him to tell me why he is behaving like that. my pals, he came up telling me that His people dont marry an outsider that they only marry from their place due to royalty lineage they have, Yet his name or suname doesnt depict royalty, Pls if you are from EKITI state how true is this assertion?? he said his parent are against him and he asked other elders too and they said same thing and he cant go against his parent, yet these parent are so Educated. I have a strong feeling he is lieing.
Reason- (1) have been to his family house and everybody there are very strong christian who doesnt have time for traditional things.
(2) He said it was the first time i came they disapprove after he made his intent known to them. He came around recently and beggd me to make it down to his house cos he wants me to get familiar with his sibblings, though ve been visiting the same house before, Pals Now if they disapprove the first time why is he begging me recently to still come down to same house. (3) i couldn't make it down to the house and he pleaded with me to travel down telling me he has someting up is sleeve and wanna take the relationship to another level (4) There was a time he told me he wanna move out of the country, could this be the reason?

Now pals you would notice am using the word begged cos after i noticed his unseriousness and yet he is claiming love, i spoke to myself never to use myself to beg him in anyway moreover i spend the money each time i travel down and he even collect from me again in the name of "borrow me" also whever am going to him he would make demand to buy him certain things, yet he doesnt give me anything. so i decided not to go visiting except he send me money that would be enough for me.

He is working and am also working but most times anytime he is broke and need urgent money not minding the amount i can bail him out by borrowing him cos financially i am stable. but he makesure he pays part or all the amount at his own time of which am not worried. Now am begining to think he has been using me as a financial back up n for other material purpose and not love. He also told me am good and a complete woman, pals am kinda confused.