Gud day pals, pls i need advice I am cofused and frustrated, when i was in sch sch a man asked my hand in marriage which i refused, i told him i was not ready for marriage then that i wil further my edu. He keep coming until i passout from sec sch, he tried to convince me that he wil allow me further my edu if i marry him, i told him i can't combine marriage and edu at dat age. The day he visited my house last, he saw me filling my addimission form, he asked what i was doing i told him i have gotten addimision he left wit annoyance i wanted to see him off he told me there is no point but one thing i should knw is dat he will marry me whether i like it or not dat one day i must look for him. I took it as a joke, during my ND I have a man dat iwas going out wit me his intention was to marry me, there was a period i went wit him to visit his family, after the visitation i had a dream i was in my man family house than the man dat said he must marry me whether i like it or not came inside and started shouting dat i am his wife dat he wil not allow any man take me from him the mother of my man was beging him he refused and drag me out of the house, when i woke i prayed then the next day i had another dream i saw myself doing wedding the person conducting the wedding was a herbalist, in a wedding when they wil say the groom and the bride should feed each other me and the man were feeding each other from a calabash with a black substance in it and the people that gather at the reception were all crying for me i was telling myself what kind of wedding i mine doing dat everybody is crying, i woke up and pray over it. A week later the man that intend to marry me then wrote a letter that he had a trible dream asking me who is "john" to me dat he wil narrate the dream to me when he come around, initially i was disturb but a later prayed and forget abt it. After my nysc the man dat intended to marry me left, since then more than 6 men have asked my hand in marriage but the reletionship wil end the same way. I explain everytin to my pastor he said if did not offend the man i should keep on praying dat God wil intervne. After so many yrs this man came telling he has not knw happiness since he left me, he has been facing so many frustration in his life that should forgive and pray for him, i asked how do u offend me that u are beging for forgiveness he refuse to open up