My pals, we are married for seven years now and blessed with a wonderful baby boy of 5 yrs.old eventhough for some time now my wife is having a problem to conceive for our plan is to have 3 kids and i love my wife so much, we are nigerians but based in europe but i come to nigeria every 45 days because i own a company here in nig. uptill last year dec. i use to have and do everything in commune with my wife, we had a joint account here in europe whenever our family in nigeria calls for help both her parents and mine we have always done it with the knowledge of each other and there's nothing i do without telling or discussing it with my wife first even financially but early this year, my wife told me that she doesn't want us to continue having a joint account anymore that she doesn'nt want me to see her salary any longer, i started wondering why since we are very comfortabale and her salary is nothing to be compared to what i bring into our account every month, after a little personal investigation i discovered that she had a meet with her parents to be bringing her monthly salary to them without even telling me after i had even set up a business for her brother here in europe and he's not doing well due to his womanizing habits. now, i'm begining to loose the trust i have for my wife since she can decide to do things with her parents without telling me and her whole family is in support of what she's doing despite the fact that i have never made them lack anything. when ever there's a call from her family they 'll want to know if am around first for them to continue there discussion and if my wife tell them that am inn they 'll just drop and tell my wife to call them back and that should be when am not at home this has lasted for seven months now and i have talked to my wife about it but she doesn't want to change and i don't want to continue this way. Pals how do i handle this pls..