hi every one...pls i need ur advice..when i was in the University 400 level i met a girl i loved so much in my church..she was still looking for her direct entry into the University, but she has deficiency in English language we dated for about a year olraidy..Her mom (single mom actually she left the husband cos it was a polygamous home)asked me to help her daughter write english in an external examination waec..i ask one of my frens to help write cos i was busy with my examinations in school and he did, the mom paid him and he left..she got admission to read Law 2oo level direct entry, and i did everything possible to help assist with her registration in school..i finish school moved to Abuja to look for a good job tho i was a broke***** nigger..we dated for almost 6 years.. during her final year in school her mom remarried a rich widower and there life change instantaneously from rags to affluence..then i was in Abuja squatting with a frend and struggling to make ends meet..my girl friend visited me several times i was beginning to see some changes in her behaviors and characters..she finish law and was posted to Abuja for her her school..one Sunday i went visiting took a bus to Bwarri area council thats where the law school is located..she was so proud and was introducing me to her friends as a friend.. i am saying this becos this is a girl i have already engaged....i asked her why and it became a problem ...we sorted out the issue and i left..but that same day she went ahead to meet my elder sister in her house who is also in Abuja with her husband..to tell her that she wants me to give her space because im a distraction to her in law school..my elder sis related the issues to me..when i called her to find out she never meant so..i was so annoyed and pissed cos this a girl i helped gain admission and assist it her registration telling me to give her space cos she is in a law school,,pls my people does the ends really justify the means? we dated for 7yrs i loved her with all my heart but because of these very words i gave her the space and she never called till after two months..i just send her a text and wished her best of lucks in her law school cos my calling her may be a form of distraction too...Today God blessed me with a house and a car, with an official car and im really confused because all the girls want to go out with me i dont know which is ryt...i have a new girl friend now she met me while things are really good around me she is nice and humble and planning to get married ..pls should i call my ex to thank her or invite her to my wedding? cos she is 31 yrs old now and not married i hope and pray she is planning too..thanks pls i need serious minds here ..no dumps pls..